October 17, 2006
Santa Monica, Calif: "The principal said children playing tag suffered both physical and emotional injuries." Emotional? He means self-esteem. If someone tries to win, then he's hurting someone else's self-esteem and is bad, bad, bad. No competition allowed. Here's more.
Cheyenne, Wyo, Wichita, Kan.; San Jose, Calif.; Beaverton, Ore., Rancho Santa Fe., Calif., ...: "The bans were passed in the name of safety, but some children's health advocates say limiting exercise and free play can inhibit a child's development. ...Critics of the bans say playing freely helps kids learn to negotiate rules and resolve disputes."
Spokane, Wash.: Principle (sic) Terren Roloff told Fox News she chose to ban tag because it encourages victimization and students are encouraged to play. ...The National Association of School Psychology agress with Roloff, and other schools have been banning tag as well."
Sacramento, Calif: "Concerned about safety and injuries and worried about bullying, violence, self-esteem and lawsuits, school officials have clamped down on the traditional games from years past. ...At Natomas Park...yard supervisor Janice Hudson spotted a first-grader pushing a girl on the swing. 'Do not push,' Hudson told the student. 'Let her push herself, please.'"
Silver Spring, MD: "The school had been cracking down on those games at recess because, as Principal Doris Jennings explained, 'Body contact is inappropriate for recess activities.'"
Or, you can read a study that influences these school decisions. Neil Williams, chair of the health and physical education department at Eastern Connecticut State University, has compiled and updates "The Physical Education Hall of Shame" list of recess activities that he feels are inappropriate.
"The Physical Education Hall of Shame was established to identify certain activity programs or games which, although physically demanding, do not contribute to the development of motor, cognitive, and affective skills of the students. Such meaningless activities have limited physical activity time, promote minimal participation, embarrass students in front of their classmates and are primarily concerned with having fun. Line Soccer, Red Rover, Simon Says, Spud, Tag and Messy Back Yard are examples of such activities."
Well, we can't have games "primarily concerned with having fun," can we? His list also adds Dodge Ball, Duck Duck Goose, Kick Ball, Musical Chairs, and Steal the Bacon, the last of which I think is a game for inner city school kids.
Many of these schools banning tag are in Massachusetts and California, which are trying to overtake France as the land with the most weenies. Instead of exercising, maybe kids could take up some other activity that is non-contact, like target shooting, walking over to McDonald's to eat and hang out, or playing video games. Those are non-contact, so they might be good.
The education establishment is getting worse and more out-of-touch with the real world, desires of parents, and the best interests of the kids.
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Steal the Bacon is simply a game where you have two teams about 10 yards apart. An object is placed midway between the teams. One player from each team goes out, tries to grab the object and run back to his team without being tagged by the other player. If he does his team gets a point. I'm sure there are many variations.
The knees of my pants didn't last long. I once almost was knocked out playing Pick Up and Smear. But that's how you build self-confidence and pride (at least most boys). Heck, when we got older and played basketball and football it didn't seem that bad.
All this sissification/non-contact/non-competitive stuff is bull crap. When you develop toughness as a kid, you will be better prepared to face the challenges of adulthood. I face each day with confidence because I went up against guys who were bigger, stronger, faster, etc. than me and survived. Sometimes I was victoriious.
My eighth grade son and his teammates inflicted some physical pain on the opposing football team yesterday, and vice versa. What I've noticed is that his team has an excellent comaraderie, the kids are tough, some play with broken wrists and hands. They support and encourage each other tremendously. I can't imagine my son not having this experience and he loves it. And he's becoming a MAN.
BTW = He had a 4.0 GPA on his report card last week, plays the baritone in the school band and is the drummer in a little rock band he and his friends created. So don't think he's just a dumb jock.
Posted by: DADvocate at Tuesday, October 17 2006 02:05 PM (S8pmH)
This nonsense akes me think of that old Wizard of Id cartoon where the guy is applying for a job and the interviewer asks if he's had any training/education and the prospective employee says "No, but I have high self esteem."
I'm waiting for them to tell me that I can't have spelling bees in my class because it will damage their self-esteem.
I played tag, dodgeball and duck-duck-goose and I think my self-esteem is fairly normal. Well, as normal as one can get considering GM is my dad. *snort*
Posted by: Jennifer at Tuesday, October 17 2006 02:16 PM (Zqfu2)
Sorry daddy-guy...hope I didn't damage your self-esteem.
Posted by: Jennifer at Tuesday, October 17 2006 02:21 PM (Zqfu2)
*snort* back at you!
Posted by: GM at Tuesday, October 17 2006 02:46 PM (S60yG)
Posted by: Jeremayakovka at Tuesday, October 17 2006 08:19 PM (q9+vw)
My questions are: How would I have discovered what I was good at if not given all the options? What if I was lousy at gymnastics and could have been the star of girls basketball, but never had the opportunity to find out? If they're busy "outlawing" all these games, what the heck ARE they playing? Shouldn't they be given all the options and then the freedom to choose what they're best at?
If some kids are not as good as others then denying those who are good at something actually lowers the overall standard. It's not just sissification - it's dumbing down. And that seems to be the standard these days.
Posted by: Oyster at Tuesday, October 17 2006 11:24 PM (YudAC)
(We're also busy eliminating any trace of fun inside the classroom in the pursuit of a chimeral concept of academics, especially in our kindergartens.)
While I don't want negate the worth of organized sports teams, which do teach important life skills as well as being enjoyable (usually), we do seem to have discarded the value of spontaneous games and fun in the face of a phalanx of the self-esteem police and tort lawyers.
Our children will be poorer in spirit as a result.
Posted by: civil truth at Wednesday, October 18 2006 02:53 AM (9f35F)
True self-esteem is the result of accomplishments made under difficult circumstances. When academic standards are lowered to the point where everyone does well, then how does one gauge accomplishment? This also applies to the games kids play. Stupid teachers ... but then that's redundant ... isn't it?
Posted by: Vulgorilla at Wednesday, October 18 2006 03:06 AM (5AfaV)
Posted by: jim hitchcock at Wednesday, October 18 2006 11:49 AM (6s55T)
What's next, banning Pop Warner football and little league baseball?
Posted by: Seth at Wednesday, October 18 2006 05:42 PM (r1vdM)
Children are now stalked, left alone and not permitted to "play" outside after school because their PC Moms are tricked into working (even when they don't want to) - no exercise.
Everyone's working - no one's cooking - more fat.
Left with the unsocial computer and television for their only mental tuning.
NOW - schools - frightened (didn't they throw out Pys Ed already?) into throwing out the only secure exercise time left for our children. Children headed to unhealthy and boring futures.
SO - look forward to a bunch of FAT - boring - unsocial children - - HEY - maybe they'll find solace in murdering their classmates - out of boredom and confusion! Geez.
Posted by: chrys at Thursday, October 19 2006 12:30 AM (VpQzS)
Posted by: e. nonee moose at Friday, October 20 2006 09:23 AM (dlFaD)
This group seems to have made a cottage industry out of grief counseling and other interventions with school kids that we handled fine in our time. Surely, most of us had classmates who were killed in car wrecks when we were young, and that was awful, but we learned lessons and handled that adequately without the "grief counselors." Today, adults go out of their way to upset the kids and make them feel worse over something that we used to be able to handle by ourselves or with our parents.
Maybe G.M. knows what's behind this group. I suspect a bunch of Democratic liberals, who use good causes and organizations with noble names to further bad politics.
Posted by: Woody at Friday, October 20 2006 10:37 AM (oDwsJ)
Posted by: Goose at Saturday, October 21 2006 07:15 AM (lU6VY)
Most people - not just liberals - seem much more protective of their kids today than in my childhood. We are also more vigilant about pollution, water quality, seatbelts, sexual harassment (and the list goes on and on) because we have the economic resources to indulge luxuries like this. Plus, the typical family has 1-2 kids instead of 3-4 and many parents wait to have their children until their late 20's, 30's or even 40's. As a result, we have more time to spend on raising our kids and to be involved in every aspect of their lives.
Posted by: DRJ at Saturday, October 21 2006 08:26 AM (mx/Dz)
Posted by: Jassalasca Jape at Monday, October 23 2006 07:08 PM (c2s+U)
Posted by: Woody at Tuesday, October 24 2006 12:26 AM (v5VVJ)
Thus, this post has been altered by the administrator because after several warnings, Jape continues to post comments that have nothing to do with the post.
Jape will respond that this comment has been censored, but nay, Jape has been warned about off topic comments before. This particular one was a smack-back at Woody for commenting On Japes Comment "As a kid, I nearly had my head ripped off by a posthole digger." Of course, Woody responded with a snide remark that the said posthole digger must have nicked Japes brain. But, the reality is is that Woody didn't say that there weren't dangerous activities that children take part in, or that accidents don't happen, Woody's post was about ending pastimes that have occupied kids (including me) for hundreds of years in one form or another.
Jape, feel free to make non-sensical entries on your blog. Not mine!
Posted by: Jassalasca Jape at Tuesday, October 24 2006 12:05 PM (0EFhq)
Thus, this post has been altered by the administrator because after several warnings, Jape continues to post comments that have nothing to do with the post.
Jape will respond that this comment has been censored, but nay, Jape has been warned about off topic comments before. This particular one was a smack-back at Woody for commenting On Japes Comment "As a kid, I nearly had my head ripped off by a posthole digger." Of course, Woody responded with a snide remark that the said posthole digger must have nicked Japes brain. But, the reality is is that Woody didn't say that there weren't dangerous activities that children take part in, or that accidents don't happen, Woody's post was about ending pastimes that have occupied kids (including me) for hundreds of years in one form or another.
Jape, feel free to make non-sensical entries on your blog. Not mine!
Posted by: Jassalasca Jape at Tuesday, October 24 2006 12:15 PM (0EFhq)
Posted by: Jassalasca Jape at Tuesday, October 24 2006 08:15 PM (c2s+U)
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